For some reason, you just can’t get him off of your mind. Ever since the end of the relationship, you’ve tried dating other men – but no one can hold a candle to him. So what are you supposed to do? Should you sit back and wait for him to come back to you, or should you just pretend like you don’t care anymore and keep dating until you forget him?
Here’s the answer: neither.
No matter who ended the relationship, you have the power to get your boyfriend back. Whether he ended it because he wanted to move onto “greener pastures” or you ended it because you thought you were tired of him, it doesn’t matter. The only thing that does matter is how hard you’re willing to work to get him back…
…and if you’re willing to play dirty to do so.
Now, let’s talk about some of the top techniques to transform your ex boyfriend into your main man. Be warned: these techniques are very powerful, so be sure you truly want to get your man back…
…because once you put these steps into action, there’s no going back!
Limit Contact – But Play Dirty
I know, this is the last thing you want to do. And believe me, when it’s one in the morning and you’re just dying to text him, this might take all of your willpower.
But whatever you do, do NOT bombard him with texts, phone calls, and Facebook messages.
Trust me, this has NEVER worked for a girl. A guy doesn’t get back together with his ex simply because she kept contacting him. And if he was the one who ended things, the last thing you want him to feel is pity. So instead, be a little mysterious. Withdraw contact. Delete his number from your cell phone. Don’t visit your usual hangout spots.
But keep him on Facebook – because this is one place where you can play dirty.
Guys love a challenge – and if he sees you having an amazing time without him, you’ll peak his curiosity. At that point, you’ve already infiltrated his mind. Guys want what they can’t have; it’s as simple as that. If he sees you being the life of the party or busy with friends, he’ll be intrigued by what you’ve got going on.
So even if the last thing you feel like doing is getting together with friends and posing for pictures, smile anyway: once those pics are uploaded to Facebook, you know your ex will be looking at them.
However, whatever you do, don’t post obvious pictures of yourself posing for the camera. Guys can see right through that. The best pictures are of you candidly smiling, being involved in conversation and laughing up a storm.
That’s phase one in learning how to get a boyfriend back!
You know that men are visual creatures, right?
Well, then it’s time to look so good that you could break some hearts!
There’s a reason why women tend to lose weight and change up their looks right after a break-up: it’s because it works. From dropping a couple of pounds to getting a drastic haircut, changing your look will make you look like a new woman in the eyes of your ex. Add to the fact that you’ve cut off contact with him, and you’ve got a recipe for an instant reunion.
However, don’t confuse changing your look with changing who you are as a person. After all, he fell in love with your personality for a reason.
The key is to make him to be the one who makes the first move. Unfortunately, there’s still a double standard when it comes to getting back with ex. But if you know how to play your cards right, you’ll practically have him eating out of your hand – and he won’t have a clue that you made it happen!
If you want to know more about the ultimate secrets on how to get your ex boyfriend back, then check out Michael Fiore’s “Text Your Ex Back” system. According to Fiore, text messages can be extremely powerful in winning back the love of your ex. You just have to know how to use them the most effective way, so that you don’t seem desperate or needy.