The Secrets to Keeping a Man Happy
Men are not complicated creatures if women take the time and the forethought to think about what her man likes and desires in life. In fact, the key to making a man happy often proves to be as simple as imagining life from his viewpoint, and then taking the necessary steps to ensure that he succeeds at providing his goals in life for his family.
Imagining life from his point of view requires that a woman step outside of her role in the family and consider how her man might view the household and the family.
A woman might feel stressed out and inclined to vent her frustrations the minute her husband or boyfriend comes home. She might consider her man to have an equal share in dealing with the stresses and challenges that come with raising a family.
She would be correct in this viewpoint; however, the husband or boyfriend that walks into a house manned by a complaining wife or girlfriend may feel overwhelmed and question why his family could not allow him a few moments to unwind from work before he was confronted with their dilemmas.
Giving a man a chance to acclimate to his home after a long day might help keep a man happy and encourage him to take a more active role in solving family challenges rather than to feel overwhelmed by them.
Even more, many families today are so busy that they no longer cook at home, but rather go out to eat in a bid to save time and effort. For men whose mothers always cooked for them as children, going out to eat every night often proves to be an unwelcome habit.
Making a man happy may be as simple as serving him a home cooked meal several times a week. Men today encourage and welcome their wives’ and girlfriends’ outside careers; however, many still want their wives to cook for them.
In fact, many modern men are willing to join her in the kitchen and help prepare the meal. But women who take the easy route in feeding their families, and who otherwise shirk their duties in the kitchen, serve to disappoint their men and may prompt men to want more in life than what his wife is willing to provide for him.
A woman may be advised to consider from her man’s point of view how it feels to be served a takeout meal rather than one prepared by a wife or girlfriend considerate enough to show her love and affection by cooking for him. Cooking for him can also show that she appreciates his hard work for the family and she knows how to keep a man happy.
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